what is sexy?

as a writer I sit trying to decide what is sexy?
is it a beautiful man or woman or a man or woman who drives us wild with their mental intelligence?
is sexy a look or a a thing?
is sexy real or eluded too?
can sexy be sensual or is it hot only?
to me?
i think sexy is someone who can look at me and reduce me to a mess, make me forget how to talk with just their look, I don't even have to know that person, it's just there fleeting...

sexy to me is intelligence where I could talk all night yes talk and never touch BUT when we do, explosive...that to me is sexy, raw and passionate...