it's always in a Christmas song isn't it one that gets your heart beat fast and makes ye smile ear to ear with all the possibilities that might ensue over the holidays...well my dear friends I wish ye all much joy and love

HUGS, quite simply I believe we all need MORE HUGS and then some more besides
wouldn't life be amazing if we could receive a hug anytime and not have to ask or hope for it?
this time of year so many people are hurting badly, alone, afraid destitue and fearful.

Reach out this year, talk to THAT stranger and perhaps part with a sandwich or coffee...

Why?

yesterday I could not face blogging after all that news, my mind whirled trying to understand how anyone could kill anyone else but children little one's at that?
why are people the way they are?  is in inbred, genetics or a learned form after years of abuse of some sort?

I don't really by the after abuse myself, been there done that sort of thing...I believe a person can overcome anything if he/she truly sets his mind to it, so to blame something horrific in order to go do something else, no no way am I buying into it...people fess up, own your own actions and for pity's sake get the help you need, it's there if you look for it...

do you ever have a day where everything you do has gone wrong?
well I have had one of those days, sigh
and it's not even over yet :-)

some days are impossible you do or say something and for whatever reason it's not understood or twisted around, sigh...onwards and upwards

grrrrr! today I am so far behind in everything it's one of those days!!!  have you ever had a day like that?
somedays it's like there are not enough hours in the day or night for that matter!
does that mean I'm doing too much or just one of those days or weeks?
this time of year we may all find ourselves in that rush, but, do we stop and think about if it's truly that important or if that rushed dinner is a good thing to do?

tonight after dinner I'm going to sit and just take some me time in, maybe you should too!

Today I've made a wee promise with myself, to learn to love myself, to learn to relax, to just enjoy!
Have you made that promise to yourself? How can you be loved if you don't truly love yourself?

It's not ego it's not selfish it's just natural...

...today I'm sitting here being reminded that life can suck royally!
is it really anyone's fault or just a culmination of things that happen together that make it so?
both really, or so I think so...today someone just is having such "fun" annoying me, pulling me apart saying how what I'm doing with my life isn't real isn't going to amount to anything...well maybe for them but for me I know where I'm going and how I'm going about it, life is hard and yet somehow people who supposedly care are the very people who drag us down and stomp all over us, why?  because we supposedly love each other it's totally acceptable?  well news in, it's NOT alright, EVER!